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Klara Foldys's avatar

Phew, thank you for this. Hits home. I feel like I encounter this all the time, and it's so frustrating. I want to have conversations about this, explore where to go and what to do about it as a white European, and also share my own fear and discomfort and pain, but many tend to shoot the conversation down with these escape hatches. The ones I encountered most often are "the world simply isn't fair", and "capitalism is still the least bad of all evils", "humans just are this way" and "you should consider yourself lucky not to live in worse times than these".

Re-membering Kin Encounters's avatar

for my own thinking of how to communicate parts of this -- i'm starting to see how modernity and whiteness are more like the furniture in house that shapes experience/desire -- rather than just systems or stories or institutions (like profit, violence, capitalism, or empire). what makes discussing the furniture so hard is that it re-designs itself to accommodate the rooms and critiques of modernity and whiteness -- to seem like responsiveness and yet to change nothing at all. if the call for relationality feels like a threat, then that speaks to how deep the severed identity/culture is -- imo.

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